Do you really know who your true friends or fake friends are? What is the trigger point to tell you who your fake friends are?
I sometimes wonder what goes through peoples minds to choose to be a real friend or fake friend. I recently figured out who were my true friends and sympathetic to my needs. I was not feeling well which I posted on Facebook and saw who was really watching my post. I notice that multiple people saw the post and responded on it which I figured, But there were those who did see the posting and did not say anything. The sad part is when you expect certain people to respond which they didn't, not only responding to the posting but not even any contact anyway or form. Also this was not the only issue at the same time. My father was rushed to the hospital and was in critical condition which this was posted the same time. Guess what, these same people who claim they are friends, did not contact me to see how I was handling the situation.
There is no excuse for a person not to be sympathetic the next person. A phone call, email, twitter or even now days Facebook. It's just some way to say something nice to that person. If you were part of someones life for a brief moment or a long time standing, it is appropriate to show some compassion to that person. If something happened to you, do you expect some compassion back? We live in a world that everyone needs to be nicer to each other. True friends will always be there no matter the situation but we need to get rid of all those fake friends because they are a drain to you life.
So are you a true friend to someone or are you one of those fake friends?
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